My 2011 Blog Review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

The concert hall at the Syndey Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 11,000 times in 2011. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 4 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

Click here to see the complete report.

I promise to blog more this year.

All in all, thanks for dropping by….


Lesson #6: Six to Twelve Months

Over the course of me blogging about being a mum, I will share my experiences as part of ‘my lessons learnt’ series.

When you get pregnant or become a mum/parent, you feel like you are the only one in the world who has just had a baby until the day you look for reassurance that you are doing the right thing. Be it advise from family, friends, the net, your health advisors…..you name it. That is when you realize that being a parent is NO JOKE! and you are not alone.

What have I learnt between six to twelve months of being a mother?

TIME FLIES!!!

You can read my thoughts of the first six months here if you missed it.

If you thought that the first six months had plenty of milestones, nothing prepares you for those that come before your DS or DD turns one.

Weaning/ Feeding

Well, to be honest, DS started eating when he was four months. He is a BOY afterall. So, no amount of breast milk or formula alone would satisfy him. I was scared at first as the ‘experts’ always advise to wean at 6 months. To be honest, this was not going to happen. Dealing with a crying baby who is clearly hungry every 30mins to an hour mostly during the day is not fun especially when you are exhausted due to lack of sleep. So, we started eating. At first it was porridge for breakfast and this helped a lot. DS settled much better than before. I kept this up until he was 5 months with increased portions of the porridge and then I introduced fruits and yogurt for lunch. By the time DS was 6 months, we were on three meals a day and no more night feeds.

Problem I encountered whilst weaning DS was I was moving too fast for him. His first cooked meal, I mixed carrots with potatoes. He refused to eat it as the taste was just too intense for him. After a phone call or two to fellow yummies, I tried foods on their own, like carrots, potatoes (which I discovered get quite gummy when pureed. So added milk to stop this and it worked.), butternut squash, sweet potatoes, etc. RESULT! It wasn’t long before I was mixing things up, using herbs, olive oil, garlic and ginger, you name it.

With time, DS’ appetite increased. I soon learnt what he loves and what is simply won’t eat. By 8-9 months, DS was more or less choosing what he would eat. I also soon learnt not to give up and try it again another time. Afterall, you are ‘told’ to try foods at least eight times(at varying stages mind you) so that you are sure they don’t like it.

Sitting Up / Crawling

When it comes to physical milestones, boys differ greatly from girls. Boys are more layed back and will take their time to do stuff. Where as girls are always on the go.

When it came to this stage, DS took his sweet time and I was one impatient mum. He would sit up aided by his nursing pillow (knew it would come in handy some other way), but only for so long until he was tired. Eventually as months went by I would use it to prop him up and when we were playing slowly took it away. Soon we were sitting on our own by 7-8mths. It was at this stage tummy time became less taxing. DS hated tummy time from when he was 3mths. He would always throw a hissy fit. So, I would only do them when he was happy and this only lasted for less than five minutes at a time. I digress. Anyway…..when DS was sitting unaided, tummy time was much more easier as he had more stronger control of his neck and back muscles. Soon after we were rolling.

As soon as DS realised the power of rolling, there was no stopping him. He used it to his advantage to roaming past his play mat. Soon, hubby and I were thinking of how to baby proof our home.

It didn’t take long between milestones with DS at this point. With the rolling, he soon discovered he could go on all fours and within a few weeks, we were crawling. By the time DS was 10mths, he had moved from rolling on the floor to crawling. Two weeks later, he was starting to prop himself up and stand.

Standing/Walking

DS started walking when he was between 10 and 11mths. He could hold on to the furniture and slowly move from one end to the other. When he got stuck at the end, he would cry to be put to the next piece of furniture or to be put down on the floor to crawl. We knew this was going to be a problem when it came to bedtime since he was so excited he was standing on his own, it was the getting down part that proved to be a challenge he wasn’t ready for.

At first, we helped and showed him how to get down. After a few days of crying and hissy fits, we ignored him. This time I made sure I had my camera rolling. DS literally slid with his legs wide apart, put the palm of his had on the floor to prop himself and carefully dropped to the floor. Hubby and I did silent high fives and cheers. It was a start and we knew bedtimes would now be easier.

At least now he had a clue of how to get down and crawl.

Now, we are stuck on the walking whilst holding on to furniture, walls, us, his walking toys, etc. Progress is that he is now faster and combined with speedy crawling, we have ourselves a little adventurer.

Answering Back / Waving

DS shocked me when he started answering back the questions asked on his favourite cartoons, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Jake and the Neverland Pirates. When they asked a question, I heard him say ‘hhmmm!’ or ‘hhhmm?’ I thought I was hearing things until I started asking him questions and got the same response. I was utterly amazed.

Shortly, when the cartons are almost ending or someone is leaving and says, “See you later.” or “Bye.”, I could see him waving to the TV. Soon, I was waving good by when I was going out or when taking him to bed we wave him goodnight. It’s on and off, but it  happens. Nowadays, he waves ‘hello’ too. Chuffed mum right here!

There are loads of milestones that DS has done that reduce me to tears, like the ‘pincer grip’, eating solids (no mush or puree), no more reflux, etc. The list is endless as they (milestones) just keep happening.

I have learnt to be alot patient with my baby as everyday, although it looks the same, there is always something different that is going to happen.

What have your experiences been during the last six months of year one?

 


Station Freebies 251111

I was wondering when was the next time I would get a freebie on my #dailycommute as the last one I got was almost two months ago.

Today, lastminute.com were pushing for new customers by giving them a sweet tooth with chocolate samples and a Promo code for staying in a luxury hotel.

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The unopened chocolate sample miniture box courtesy of lastminute.com

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Opened to reveal 15% off when booking with promo code (pen put to show size of box).

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“Hotel details will not be revealed until it’s booked.”

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The gold foil wrapped treat that awaits you as you decide where to book for a night of exclusive luxury on the cheap.

Freebie picked up at London Liverpool Station.

Hooraay for freebies!

Update:

Had the chocolate after posting this and I have to say….I have had better delights. Still….hooray for freebies!


Sept./Oct. ’11 Weekender – An Autumn Special

Since I missed to do a Weekender end of September, thought I combine it with October to make it an Autumn Special.

Just because winter is around the corner does not mean you shouldn’t get up and dance. Afterall, it will make you feel warm and fuzzy inside.

Since this is a two month special, I will share 10 videos/tracks that I have come to like during this time. So here goes, a mixture of all genres:

Qqu – Alive (something different from Kenya)

LMFAO – Sexy and I Know It (these guys just crack me up with their videos. For a change its dudes being sexy in a video. Bangin’ beat too)

Kelly Rowland feat. Lil’ Wayne – Motivation (this track is just……*panting*)

Maroon 5 feat. Christina Aguilera – Moves Like Jagger (BRILLIANT video and homage to one of the greatest rockers ever Mick Jagger…..also watch till the end)

Sean Paul feat. Alexis Jordan – Got 2 Love U

Ice Prince feat. Brymo – Oleku

Cabo Snoop – Windeck (Angola’s dance craze sweeping Africa)

Fredde le Grand – So Much Love (Love it!)

Pharoahe Monch – Simon Says (Hip Hop classic right here)

Digable Planets – Rebirth of Slick (Cool Like Dat)       (Jazz meets Hip Hop…….a CLASSIC. Loved this group….shame they didn’t last)

AM OUT!!!


We Are 1 Today

Happy Birthday ‘Prince’.

With lots of love,
Mum & Dad


Lesson #5: Tantrums

Over the course of me blogging about being a mum, I will share my experiences as part of ‘my lessons learnt’ series.

When you get pregnant or become a mum/parent, you feel like you are the only one in the world who has just had a baby until the day you look for reassurance that you are doing the right thing. Be it advise from family, friends, the net, your health advisors…..you name it. That is when you realize that being a parent is NO JOKE! and you are not alone.

What have I learnt about baby tantrums?

NIP THEM IN THE BUD EARLY

My baby threw his first tantrum this week.

It is still funny when he throws one of his hissy fits, but the time has now come for me nip them in the bud before they get out of hand.

Rolling on the floor, minus kicking his legs are the order of the day. At the moment it’s when he is not sitting comfortably in his poof whilst having his milk. NO POOF, NO MILK!

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At what point did he know this is how to grab our attention with ‘bad’ behaviour?

My friend (a fellow mum) always told me, “It only takes them once to learn.”

Has your little one thrown a tantrum? If so, what measures have you put in place so they don’t get out of hand?

EDIT: Just incase the above questions defeat you, @PastorWa may have just helped you with that dilemma here. Good thing to have come across it now. Nipping said baby characteristic will be a breeze interesting.


Current Fascination #3

Now that DS is roaming free in our sitting room, he is currently being excited by our dining set and his high seat. He crawls under them, pulling and tugging on the fire advice labels under the seats and using his high chair as a ‘learning to stand’ prop.

The funniest thing is when he attempts to crawl out from under the table, that he chooses the smallest of gaps to get through. When unsuccessful, he start to call out for help. At first by looking at us to see if we are watching him. Then a whimper. Followed by a genuine cry for assistance. At first I used to help him, but now I talk him through the right path as with anything else. Nowadays, he ventures under the table, through the chairs with so much finesse you would think he has been doing it for ages.

 


Home Freebies 080911

Just got this through the post with a money off voucher so I can try Bebivita baby food products. I always wanted to get DS a new bigger spoon now he has out grown his weaning ones. Thank you Bebivita. I will definately try your products now.

Hooray for freebies!


Station Freebies 060911



Today morning, got a pack of sweets on my way to work. They are like wine gums, but with a difference.

You combine two flavoured sweets to create a third which is quite interesting. So far, I like them.

Hooray for freebies.


Station Freebies 050911

So yesterday got another freebie from London Liverpool Street station. An Oyster/travelcard holder with money off voucher from my favourite supermarket, Tesco.

Unfortunately, the voucher is for a particular store in the area and I hardly shop there. At least I got a cool Oyster card holder to use when my current one sees better days.

Hooray for freebies!


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