Hey Ladies

I found this and thought I share. If it has been shared before…no harm in sharing it again.

Funny how most of it makes sense (to me anyway)! The ones highlighted in bold really stood out to me.

 IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about
baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies….. You’ll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Have a nice day y’all!

Video of the Day: Janet Jackson

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6 thoughts on “Hey Ladies”

  1. Hey girl, you got those titty thangs coming for christmas!

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    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away…unless your sisters/girlfriends are also hot..then he may be distracted.

    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be….I’m saying, a little gym can’t be bad to get into your life….

    Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women….well, at least you know he’s badass in the hay!

    Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you…too obvious.

    All men are NOT dogs…Yes. The other ones are wolves.

    Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted……If you miss the 3 am booty call coz you were ‘hiding’ and your girl gets it, don’t be mad.

  2. @Makanga….LOL!!! Why am I not surprised by your views on the above.

    Lakini you have to admit even from your point of view, they really do make sense…..ebu leta a serious jamaaz opinion.

  3. well spoken…. chics love makin excuses…. men dont lie….. the low esteem causes chics to settle for less… thanx for sharing…it’d save chics heartaches if they were this realistic.

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