Yesterday was a special day for me and only Farmgal knows why. Don’t bother asking her for details as she signed a gagging order not to reveal. Manyanga….time flies huh?
As you lot have figured out from personal thank yous from Mama Mocha…..yes, my mum is dot com savvy. So, there is no point in changing your ways now that my mum reads some of your blogs…betty, UMESIKIA! She has been reading since I had this blog. So you telling on me had fallen on deaf ears…..LMAO!
August has started with a bang (see first paragraph). Also the sun is out. I hope it stays like this even if its for one month. Summer just can’t go by like that bila kidogo sunshine….ama niaje 3TOC?
As for previous spouses and potentials roaming back into my life……SHINDWENI! Yaani, I have a shortlist of future Mr Mocha!’s and the ones who were in the cut (exes) or didn’t make it (potentials) are making funny appearances. Can’t a girl have fun bila issues? AAARRGGHHH!
Take this convo I had just the other day for example with an ex who was around for his graduation and came to see me. Boy, was I glad I got to put the final nail to that coffin and bury that memory.
Yahoo chat, Monday:
Ex: hi there
Mocha!:hi. how are you?
E: am fine u?
M!: i am ok
E: how was ur wkend
M!: Fine, i hope you had a good weekend
E: was fine no complains!
M!: it was nice to see you on Friday
M!: to be honest with you, i appreciate you coming out to meet me….but i have to let you know that you really made the right decision to end it with me. We are too different
E: u sure?
E: i thot we were bondin, but anyway u’ll alwayz have space in my heart
M!: good to know that, but if we were bonding, you wouldnt have ended it with me. besides what made you think that
E: just bocz i was havin alot of stuff n i cudnt manage handle all of them, but for sure i’ll never regret for havin u
M!: manage all of them?…come on! Isnt that why you have a partner to help ease the burden? Its true when they say….’You don’t know what you have got until its gone.’
E: i know but dint want u in as i’ll have to handle by my self first
M!: there is your answer right there. if you really had feelings for me then the other stuff you wouldn’t manage wouldnt have mattered as much.
E: well i’ll take that blame
M!: i am not saying things so that you take the blame….i am just making you see what you didnt see when you dumped me
E: dnt say i dumped u
M!: but you did. you ended it with me. you saw your future, unfortunately i wasnt in it
E: may be and i feel bad for that
M!: oohhh well
E: anyway i think we can change matter (I think he meant situation)
M!: and how do you propose to do that?
After a long silence…..
E: sori I was out. ehe sema…….hey gat go b back later
Two days later…..
E: hi, am leavin 2nite
M!: ok, but you didnt answer my question the other day
Amnesia checks in….
E: wot was it
M!: you said, “i think we can change matter” (was copying and pasting chat history) and i asked, “how do you propose to do that?”
E: oh, wel just talk on anything else
E: …so am leavin 2nite
And with that….he was gone!
This is the same person who has a place in heart for me…..COME ON!!! *insert eye roll here* This is one relationship I am glad I was dumped. Can you begin to imagine the kind of conversations we used to have? Anyway….good riddance. Bring on the next shumck….sic! I will never rule out having a jamaa in my life just because of mistakes, etc. That is the beauty of life…..you learn from every experience and wisen up! Ama?
Happy Thursday folks!
Mocha!’s TunePick: Janet Jackson – Got ‘Til It’s Gone