This is something that I have discussed with Mr Mocha and a few friends and I really would like to know what you guys thought of this topic.
You start dating someone and you are boyfriend and girlfriend. It comes to a point where the boyfriend proposes and eventually you get married and you officially become husband and wife.
Now the debate comes in when before marriage you get a child or remain childless until you get married……..what are you (with or without child) between the boyfie/girlfie stage and the hubby and wifey stage?
What is your identity during this period?